You may not be aware that there are several necessary roles in User Experience (UX) design or what we call interactive design. Here are a few of the resources I have found useful for interactive processes:
10 Usability Heuristics
52 Weeks of UX
Effective Web Design
iPhone/iPad UX reviews
IA UX
Johnny Hollang Mag
Knowledge Weave
Pervasive IA
Six revisions
UIE
UX Mag
UX Matters
UX Movement
35 Wireframing Resources
10 free wireframe apps
Sitepoint Wireframes
Wireframes Magazine
37 Signals
Elements of Design
iPhone App Patterns
Nettuts+ Beginner's Guide
Patternry
Pattern Tap
User Interface Patterns
Welie Pattern Library
Yahoo Pattern Library
Browser Shots
Adobe Labs
Loop 11 UX testing
Usability and Testing